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How To Break The Cycle Of A Recurring Fight
There are usually major fights that lead to a breakup and most of those fights have happened several times before. It reaches a point during a relationship that the mere mention of the topic results in a massive fight.
If that recurring fight is the main reason for your breakup, you're faced with a huge problem.
If you couldn't talk about the issue without fighting when you were together... How the hell can you talk about it after a breakup without fighting?
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Posted: Nov 15, 2008
FAQ: Can The Magic Of Making Up Help Me If I Cheated?
When dealing with emotions and trust -- one of the most damaging elements of a breakup is cheating.
It betrays your partner's trust and intimacy like nothing else. You've hurt them on a level they might be experiencing for the first time.
So the question always comes up... Can I fix it? Is it worth saving?
Cheating is very common. That, in no way makes it right. And don't you dare say that to your ex if you hope to reconcile. An everyone does it mentality just throws fuel on the fire.
So what do you do?
First: No blame games.
There are always circumstances that led up to cheating. Maybe there wasn't enough affection. Not enough sex. Too much time apart. Whatever the reasons are -- accept responsiblity for what happened without passing blame.
If you feel yourself about to say I cheated because YOU...
Stop yourself. Don't pass that blame onto them if you want their forgiveness.
The next step would be to rebuild your trust and communication. A thorough discussion on how to rebuild your trust is in the full version of The Magic Of Making Up.
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Posted: Nov 11, 2008
Featured Video: How To Train Your Man With The Magic Of Making Up
The idea of training your man, in relation to The Magic Of Making Up, is not meant in a derogatory sense. It's meant to show you how to guide his behavior in the desired direction.
There's always a shift in the way he responds as a relationship matures. There are specific patterns and behaviors that you gave him and he'll only do what you train him to do.
If you train him that a certain action will receive a negative response, he'll stop doing that specific action.
The problem is that training spills over into areas that you don't wish to eliminate. He doesn't show a lot of affection anymore... He doesn't talk about his personal thoughts anymore... Guess what? That's how he was trained to respond during your relationship.
So how do you un-train him? Watch the video to find out.
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Posted: Oct 23, 2008
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Posted: Oct 22, 2008
The Magic Of Making Up Case Study: Big Mistake
There's a lot of information on this site with videos to watch and articles to read trying to give you a basic understanding of how The Magic Of Making Up works.
It probably isn't said enough that every step and every action has a follow-up move that needs to be applied under the right circumstances. If you don't know what to do next you're going to run into problems, which leads to this
Posted: Oct 16, 2008
The Magic Of Making Up: Clean Slate Method
Before learning about The Magic Of Making Up System, you most likely made some errors that set you back.
Maybe you're guilty of too many text messages, maybe you begged and pleaded and tarnished your image.
It can seem like no matter what you do or what you say, the worse it gets. TW Jackson offers an opportunity to erase all the errors and effectively start over with the Clean Slate Method.
When talking to your ex there are buzz words that you can plant in your conversation to trigger the response you want. It's an effective play on words that frames reality the way your ex wants to hear it.
You'll learn how to:
- Say you're sorry without saying you're sorry
- Avoid phrases that thoroughly offend your ex
- Know when you should apologize and when you shouldn't
- Get past the relationship blame game, even if you're ex wants to keep you there
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Posted: Oct 13, 2008
The Magic Of Making Up: Second Chance Letter
Your purchase of The Magic Of Making Up includes several bonus books written by TW Jackson. One of those books is titled Mind Magic.
It's a supplement to the main guide and is often overlooked. If you've watched the videos on this site, you know your first move is to agree with the breakup in a hand written letter.
For some, writing those personal letters are difficult and they don't know where to start. Mind Magic details the importance of the second chance letter and also includes an example letter that you can use as a template.
You'll want to adjust some of the language so it sounds like something you would actually write or say.
You'll also learn the concepts and principles behind the second chance letter and why it's a pivotal point in the plan to get your ex back. It works because it takes advantage of human behavior and psychology.
Everyone wants what is rare and difficult to attain, and the letter will portray you in this light.
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Posted: Oct 10, 2008
The Magic Of Making Up Fast Forward Technique
The degree of anxiety following a breakup ranges from mild to, in some cases, crippling.
When you've invested months or years expecting your relationship to evolve into marriage and a family -- it's the equivalent of having your life turned upside down when it's been taken away.
Often, your partner becomes your pillar and best friend, the person you would seek out when struggling emotionally. The Magic Of Making Up provides several techniques and strategies to calm, aide, and control your emotions while helping you get your ex back.
The Fast Forward Technique is most effective to temper the onslaught of depression and anxiety following a breakup. It's clinically proven to control emotions and urges considered counter productive to your well being.
The Fast Forward Technique has also been used in therapy offices to help people stop smoking, control weight problems, and cope with death of a loved one.
A more in-depth explanation of The Fast Forward Technique is discussed in the full version of The Magic Of Making Up.
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Posted: Oct 8, 2008
FAQ: Does The Magic Of Making Up Work With Long Distance Relationships
If you were in a long distance relationship, you understand how much effort is involved to maintain a healthy, loving relationship. That same kind of commitment is necessary to reconcile a relationship separated by several states.
We've received success stories from people who have used The Magic Of Making Up Guide to heal their relationship. Some were living six states away, some were living on opposite ends of the country.
One common trait that is very, very consistent with long distance relationship success stories is:
Commitment
They didn't kind of try to follow the guide. They were very diligent, because they understood that it's harder to maintain a long distance relationship than it is when you spend time with someone everyday.
So, to answer the question:
Yes, The Magic Of Making Up System has been successful in these situations, but you're going to have to work harder and smarter than someone who's ex lives ten minutes away.
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Posted: Oct 6, 2008
The Magic Of Making Up Tips
The Magic Of Making Up Ebook offers solutions to a variety of scenarios. Whether your breakup is fresh or you've been separated for several months, TW Jackson, provides customized strategies in his relationship guide to get your ex back.
The following tips to get your ex back are common to all breakups and recommended for most situations:
Agree with the breakup: The sooner you stop arguing the better. Agree with the breakup and move to the next stage.
Allow time apart: It's easy to wear out your welcome, and if you over pursue you'll find your phone calls ignored.
Carry and portray yourself in a positive light: Don't beg. Don't plead. If makes you less attractive as a partner.
Don't move too fast: You'll start to see the effect of the plan when your ex starts to seek you out for contact, but moving too fast will scare your ex away.
Re-establish your friendship: Allow them back into your life... as a friend. Jumping straight back to a committed relationship evades deeper problems which ultimately leads to another breakup.
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Posted: Oct 2, 2008
TW Jackson Explains Text Message Terrorism
One of the more harmful activities following a breakup is for you to seek constant contact regardless of the feedback you receive.
As TW Jackson explains in The Magic Of Making Up, it's vital to your success to minimize negative associations with your image and activities. Text message terrorism is one of the most common and damaging mistakes.
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Posted: Sep 23, 2008
Why Your Ex Will Take You Back
The Magic Of Making Up is very much an examination of human psychology and emotional attachment. Using concepts and strategies based on how the mind works is at the heart of TW Jackson's guide.
Men and women have different reasons for taking an ex back, but patterns and consistencies exist in both.
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Posted: Sep 17, 2008
New Video: Magic Of Making Up Case Study
TW Jackson, author of The Magic Of Making Up, recently received a letter from someone seeking advice on what to do after a promising phone call with their ex girlfriend.
"Rob" just had a long 45min phone call with his ex and was thinking of speeding up the process and asking his ex on a date the following week.
Good idea or bad idea? Watch the video to see TDub's response.
Posted: Sep 8, 2008
Does The Magic Of Making Up Work With Long Separations?
There have been success stories sent in from couples reuniting after several years of separation. How is that possible? Because love doesn't fade easily.
You've imprinted their lives, their memories, their expectations of happiness through your relationship. Regardless of where your relationship stands today, if you were in love once, then remnants of that affection persist.
How can The Magic Of Making Up help in relationships with long separations? TW Jackson has included several tactics, and strategies to rekindle your love. Take them back... all the way back to when you were in love. It's not impossible. In fact, it's not even hard.
When you think of your ex, you remember the consistencies. The everlasting traits and quirks that make them truly unique and special.
Your relationship develops those traits as well. All you have to do is find those special moments, and recreate the setting and emotions. That's when the magic happens.
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Posted: Sep 2, 2008
The Magic Of Making Up: Opening Move
Often, the most difficult part of trying to get an ex back is knowing where to start and what to do. In the following video segment TW Jackson explains the concepts and reasons behind your basic opening move: agreeing with the breakup.
Why would you do that? Watch TW Jackson's video response to find out.
Posted: Aug 31, 2008
New Video: TW Jackson Answers Your Letters
A very unique aspect of The Magic Of Making Up is the opportunity to get personal advice from the author, TW Jackson. In this video segment TDub responds to letters and email he's received.
At the time of purchase you're given TDub's contact information should you need personal advice following your breakup.
Posted: Aug 28, 2008
Getting Past The Heartache
The heartache follows you everywhere. Your days and nights are filled with the pain of an unwanted breakup. For some, the emotional overload can be overwhelming, making simple everyday tasks impossible to complete.
How do you get past the pain? Is there anything you can do?
It's a common problem that TW Jackson addresses in The Magic Of Making Up. You'll learn a special coping mechanism that floods your system with positive thoughts and emotions.
Turn to page 13 and let the Fast Forward Technique help ease your heartache.
Learn MorePosted: Aug 27, 2008
The Instant Reconnect Technique
The Magic Of Making Up introduces several concepts and strategies for getting your ex back and one of the more effective tips is the Instant Reconnect Technique.
As time passes your emotional ties begin to drift. You don't talk everyday. You miss the intimacy - the bond and trust you once had. So how do you get it back? TW Jackson provides an answer to this question with the Instant Reconnect Technique.
Take your ex back in time to when you were inserparable. Reignite your passion and bond instantly.
You can find the secrets to this amazing and effective technique beginning on page 43.
Read more about The Magic Of Making UpPosted: Aug 18, 2008
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